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As with anything in recovery, take what you like and leave the rest. My ambition was amazing, but I didn’t take into consideration that I was in recovery.
You know what I accomplished in my first year of sobriety? The goal of getting sober is to get sober, and there is plenty of time later on to date, change careers, go back to school, etc.
Everyone who’s tried to get sober or managed to put together some time knows how freaking hard it is to stay sober, especially in the beginning.
You know – the whole “stayed for my thinking” thing, also known as the massive tidal wave of new and unexpected feelings, coupled with the non-stop obsessive, negative thinking.
The urge to move, marry, create or change is just our way of trying to RID ourselves of the feelings. The waitress drops an appetizer on the table and says “this is the spiciest thing you will ever eat.” How many sobers pick of their forks and take a huge bite immediately? No matter how hard we try to be different, or think we’re the exception to the rule, we are not. It was so bad that I found it difficult to do much of anything.
That’s especially bad news for us since we’ve spent our lives avoiding feelings.Speaking of rock bottom, early recovery is NOT the opportune time to start prepping for marathon, or look for a new job or spouse, or move across the country.We all get the itch to boomerang our lives back together in early sobriety.The best thing you can do – until you’ve established your sobriety – is to limit the amount of feeling you do.I know this may sound contradictory to the whole point of sobriety.